The best time not to listen to everyone else’s advice is when they are asking you to take a break and forget about your rocky relationship to achieve some healing. Rather than heal or save your already broken marriage, doing that will only worsen things.

Try these remedies immediately:

The first step is to kill off those bouts of anxiety and desperation. True, it is hard to do that but you are better off displaying the fact that you were not the weaker link in the marriage. She is just as well cautious about all your reactions and being all over her space will get you disconnected for good.

To be honest, facing a breakup in your marriage is not an easy period to go through. You are better off focusing on yourself and your positives and use this as your selling points. Do not be caught dead in a pity party.

Keep your communication lines open and be sensitive to each other’s opinions and concerns. You may also want to put yourself in her shoes at this time. This will take you miles ahead in establishing that connection.

It is not to say that facing possible divorce is a merry dance. To be sincere, people go nuts at this stage. A sure strategy is to play the earpiece role and listen up. Do not be the impregnable concrete wall that refuses to budge. Be there for her and hope for instances when she will pour her heart out.

Hang in there when it looks like curtains are really closing on your relationships. You have not yet been fully deleted from her life!

The worst scenario you may expect is when she lets you know that she does not intend to be with you again. Accept this but respectfully ask for a second shot at everything. Besides, you have nothing to loose by doing this. With time, it may prove that you were genuine and the opposites will attract with time.

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